Got the cravings for waffle today. And before I eat them, let's do some shots first. :)
Monday, 24 September 2012
Time to de-stess.
How many squares can you count? Nearly everyone on the facebook page got it wrong,
do you think you can get it right?
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Which are the best gifts we could give our kids?
One of them is a strong set of personal values. And what is our personal values? Do we actually set a good example to our children everyday? Remember, everything we do would be a reflection of what our children might follow in future, be it good or bad.
There's a sentence (shown in the magazine) which I loved most, "Once you sow a habit, you reap a destiny."
Priceless principles (extracted from the mag)
1. Courtesy & Respect: Courteous behaviour towards everyone - be it parents, superiors or the cleaners at the hawker centre - show respects for others and for oneself. A courteous child reflects a good upbringing and gives skills to get along with others, be like and command respect as a grown-up. It goes deeper than just remembering to say "please" and "thank you". It also involves teaching children to be thoughtful when communicating with others - greeting their elders, choosing sensitive words rather than harsh ones, thanking those who provided a service and letting the elderly go first. Such lessions call for parental role modelling. Don't belittle children or shout at them, as this shows them mocking and yelling at others are acceptable ways to communicate. And correct them at once when they are impolite.
2. Hard work: Teach children the value of hard work and they will not be sidelined by the temptation of taking "the easy way out". When kids learn good working habits and attitudes when they are young, they able to live a productive life by continuing to work hard towards their goals. Instilling the value of hard work in children enables them to face life's challenges, work for what they want and motivate themselves to excel. Lamenting on how many kids have a sense of entitlement these days, Nur Farah Yahya, 42 a trainer and mother, is all for giving kids chores at home. "Doing housework and having after-school; jobs (for older kids) can build self-esteem and confidence. As adults, we feel a sense of satisfaction after a job well done, so pass that on to your kids!"
3. Honesty & Intergrity: Honesty is the backbone of healthy relationships in life. Teaching children this value is an important and ongoing lesson. Explain to them that people who lie are not trusted and respected. By demonstrating the value of integrity, parents show children the importance of keeping to their word, says Theresa. "Children will learn that their word is their bond - even if it's a simple exercise like clearing the table after homework," she explains. Stress the importance of always being able to count on each other to tell the truth, even when it's difficult. "Be honest with your children and, if you catch them lying, don't shame them into admitting the truth," suggests Nur Farah. "I give my kids a chance to admit the truth first and praise them if they do. If they don't, then I stress that, as a family, it's important for us to be able to count on each other to be honest."
4. Empathy and Compassion: Being considerate and compassionate underpins the quality of niceness. Children who don't learn empathy become callous and offensive adults, oblivious of how their actions or hurt others. Teach a child to put himself in another's position and imagine what the other person might feel. Ask: "How would you feel if someone called you names?"
Mirror, mirror
In daily life, parents should monitor their own behaviour, Theresa says: "Parents need to take a honest look at themselves when they deal with conflict. Are they good listeners or defensive? Children observe your behaviour. In cases of mistakes, apologises in the kids' presence. Speak kindly and respectfully to your spouse and show children that you value each other. Values begin at home."
Thankful
感恩一切事物,让我找到读中学时的好朋友。我们一起读书,一起走去车站,一起唱K,一起打工,
还有一些些疯狂的事。。。:)
还有一些些疯狂的事。。。:)
听到我们人生的起起落落,我很高兴她现在过得很好。
还有,还有!她还是跟以前一样的38哩,太棒了啦!!哈哈 :D
Early celebration - Mid autumn Festival
They have danced pretty professionally and gracefully; especially at such young age.
And the main question comes along, which CCA (there are more though) should Jonas join next year? Haha...
Sunday, 23 September 2012
能吃是福!
对啦,能吃是福。 但也不要吃得太过量哦。:)
old airport road, food centre
样样都好吃! 不过这两天这样放肆的吃,好有罪恶感!就好比在糟蹋我自己身体一样!
但偶尔‘糟蹋’自己一下也不错的啦。能吃是福嘛!哈哈~ *矛盾心情*
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